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college

5 Years Later Still Thinking of a Promise Made

10:04 PM
Haven't really written about Hurricane Katrina although its now been 5 years since her terror reigned. I did, however, come across this story, which I bookmarked 5 years ago and still remember my first thoughts.At the time of the hurricane, I was a community organizer in Washington, DC very much invested in the forward progression of my home away from home. When I...

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food

Snack Attack

11:35 AM
I don't know if anyone else is persistently attacked by the hunger monster at work but I'm going to take a cue from my nanny friends, grandma and this site and begin packing snacks for my journey.Eating Well - Snacks to StashAny other snack items I should add to my desk drawer? ...

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life

Life Post-College

1:55 AM
So I'm talking to a friend from college about how I wish life came with instructions. He explained, "Seems like your first 5 years after undergrad are just random cards dealt. And you have to try to make a winning handBut you have no idea what card game you're playing."I think that's an adequate depiction of it. Any thoughts? ...

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peace

Be Strong

7:00 AM
Joshua 1:9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.Peace for the day. That is all. ...

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ginny owens

Peace of Mind

5:29 PM
This is what I need.Peace of Mind - Lauryn HillBecause currently I am this.Someone Searching - Ginny OwensI'm searching and its crazy because I don't know what I seek. Peace. Clarity. Understanding. Wisdom. Where is it?Wasn't planning on having this blog take this turn but I guess I'll share with you as I make this quest, I've been putting it off for so...

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BP

Just What is 140 Million Gallons?

10:04 PM
So, for the past 3 months now we've been hearing about this BP oil spill.Right about now there are over 140 million gallons of oil in the Gulf. Its the largest spill in Gulf history, will cost over $100 Million to clean up and My question was and has been, just what is 140 million gallons? I need it in layman's terms. How...

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change

Do you have to become a part of the system?

10:55 AM
I was just reading about left-wing progressives who are unhappy with Pres. Obama and letting him know. They are disappointed in handling of events like the BP oil disaster, the changes to the healthcare bill and joblessness and letting him know their support can't be taken for granted.The part that got this all going, “We thought that an election was victory. We forgot...

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faith

The Other Song He Sent Me

2:34 AM
Two songs were played that fateful Tuesday that brought me back from the brink. Hallelujah Anyhow by Joe Pace and this song, Who can satisfy by Alvin Slaughter. Thank you, Dillon. Even in death, you are still a blessing to me. ...

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DC

The Big Move

8:49 AM
As many of you know, I love nonprofits. Now that I have finished my Master of Nonprofit Organizations at Case Western Reserve University, I feel even more prepared to combine life experience with classroom learning to make an impact.That is part of the reason why I am packing up and heading to DC this weekend.I have a passion for youth and education and...

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life

Mortality

9:31 PM
Events as of late have been reminding me of my own mortality. More and more I am becoming aware of that dash. You know the one. The dash between your birth year and your death year. Its become ever-present and intrusive like the blinking cursor on my computer screen.The words repeat as the cursor blinks. Life. Is. So. Short.This wake up call is...

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inspiration

God is..

11:13 PM
Verse 1God is my protection.God is my all in all.God is my guide and direction.God is my all in all.Verse 2God is my joy in time of sorrow.God is my all in all.God is my today and tomorrow.God is my all in all.ChorusGod is the joy and the strength of my life, He moves all pain, misery, and strife. He promised to keep...

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Save money

I haven't forgotten about you!

7:00 PM
I haven't forgotten about you! I am looking forward to finishing school and getting back on a schedule of working, blogging, pontificating and strategizing, you'll see.MlleMitchell suggested I write about my money saving venture as I have now been dubbed the Coupon Queen. That's my new name and I like it. There's nothing better than seeing the bottom of your receipt read:You saved...

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poetry

Success

12:27 AM
Happy Friday! Thought of the day - here's my favorite poem.SuccessTo laugh often and muchto win the respect of intelligent peopleand the affection of children;to earn the appreciation of honest criticsand endure the betrayal of false friends;to appreciate beauty;to find the best in others;to leave the world a bit better,whether by a healthy child,a garden patchor a redeemed social condition;to know even one...

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news

Life Updates!

11:44 PM
So much to say. :-D Well, for starters...I'm engaged now! In true M + T fashion, he proposed right before we ate lunch, said he couldn't wait. Yup, the Mr. popped the question on Good Friday (making it Great Friday) and of course, I said yes! The details have yet to be determined but that will be the next step. For now, we...

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blessed

Love

12:19 AM
Love is a plenty splendid thing.Ever since reading this: Couple married for 80 years & still going strong. I've been thinking about the longevity & meaning of true love. Its memory and the joy it brings outlasts life itself. Haven't fully formed my thoughts around it but Uncle Ovid passed away today (my bf's great uncle). He left the earth peacefully and in...

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inspiration

Keep Going by T-Pain

6:56 PM
Words of inspiration from (of all places) T-Pain.YeahUhuhemkeep goingyeahthey get me up in the morningthey give me reason to believe I'm herefor somebodyfor someonethey make me feel so joyoushappiness aint a word describe, what i feellike when i try to give it upsick and tired of all this stuffthey give me reason tokeep goinand goinwhen i feel that i should quiti keep goini...

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love

Me & He Part 1

9:54 PM
Just smiling to myself and thinking things over quietly here in my room. Rosetta Thurman says I should share my thoughts, tell my story because, "We need more love stories, especially for black women who are being told we can’t find love…"So, I am trying to think back on the events, the long conversations and occasional pauses, the defining moments that brought me...

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tribulation

Hallelujah Anyhow

10:42 PM
Troubles may come my way. My response remains the same. Thanks Dylan. :-) [I first heard this song in November 2005 at the funeral of my favorite cousin, Detective Dillon Stewart in NY. I think they played it just for me.]Hallelujah Anyhow Joe PaceI believe I'll testifyGod's been good to meThrough every test and trialI've got the victoryThe enemy has tried his bestTo...

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Chris

Chris Thigpen

1:39 PM
Yesterday, my Godbrother, Chris Thigpen passed away. I'm sad and was struggling most of the night until I heard his wife say he just wanted to make sure his life/story wasn't in vain. He was sure to write his story and I wanted to share with you all. Be blessed. "I am a 27 year old male and I have recently been diagnosed...

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ideal career

Self & Career Assessment

8:58 AM
This started out as a note to Mademoiselle Mitchell but soon turned into a blog post. Read and enjoy.I was applying for an internship on Friday when my bf asked if the job fit into my mission, if it was what I wanted to do and if I even knew what I wanted to do. That made me uneasy because honestly, I don't...

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winter

New Year, New Energy

8:56 AM
Hello All!Its been a long time but like Sade, I don't write unless I have something to say. I am currently working, studying and thinking hard about life, love and the future so this should guarantee to be an enlightening year for us all. Sit back and relax. I hope you enjoy and are challenged. ;-)~The Queen ...

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  • Women Don't Ask - Linda Babcock & Sara Laschever
  • Rich Dad, Poor Dad
  • Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High
  • 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
  • The Tipping Point
  • The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You - John C. Maxwell